Failure

failure is not everything that one has to worry about. Sometimes it is the key to achieve success.

SO stop regreting about your mistakes because there are lots of similar  hurdles you have to face and that mistake will help you rectify second time. This is the way of life.


SUCCESS IS A HABIT , FAILURE IS A HABIT TOO..
ONCE YOU GET OUT OF YOUR FAILURE YOU WILL BE HABITUATED TO SUCCESS
  BELIEVE ME

loneliness..

this word just loves me where ever  i  go. we have become the best friends ever. i  always think my world to be full of joy and happiness with lots of people around me , chatting with them living in a group but why will life give me what i want?? nohh why am i blaming others for my deeds. i am the reason for all that happens . we are oneself responsible for for everything.
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 every time out of my home, a new world is introduced to me, a gang of people with different thoughts, ideas and many more . n i feel mi am the stranger to myself. i cant recognize me within them. it feels harder to talk to them, be with them , share my feelings. my efforts just go in vain every time i rise up my voice to communicate with the people.

  why cant i introduce myself and make me friendly with the strangers. n after i make some companions , i don't find myself fit with them. this is how i am stuck in this world. i find no one perfect to share my words. their way of life and thought never meet to mine. my choice alters with others. so i prefer me alone to accompany me .

 thus loneliness is becoming my partner throughout my whole journey. i would say this is how i live and know about myself.who cares how the world compete with me..  have a constant speed within me that would definitely takes me to that level.

REGRETS

  we continuosly walk in our path with our interests ignoring what will be next or am i right.. everything seems to be careless in front of us. and after we know about the consequences we get to know that oh no! why have i done this . actually this case is applied for almost all the people.

   we do what we like. but when we become aware of our mistakes, its too late. we can do nothing for that. we don't respond for good things butbad things and its adverse result is always affecting our brain in any way. yes, being a human we commit many wrong deeds , sometimes we realize it or dont. some mistakes can be corected but some remains as the black part of our life. we can do nothing more than regreting.

   but those regrets just kill ourselves. we can be sorry for those acts but the attitude towards ourselves remain the same forever. nwe can just shout at us, cry like a baby or deeply hurt but hat is not going to change anything.if we regret for our deds then we are free of all. lets start with a new beginning forgetting all those deeds. but we just need some time to console ourselves. we should be courageous to face the says of others.

    let the dogs bark... we should move on with rectification to not repeat those silly mistakes again.its us to decide for our future now . none can be perfect without imperfection . so let us be trying and trying until we reach to perfection.

aim and destiny

  after we start knowing about the real world, we start thinking about what to do in the future. it sometimes becomes the matter of entertainment during childhood. dad says- my childs going to a doctor. next, mom says - no, he will become an engineer. and our mind hovers around in the dream of our parents. with the time, we get to experience a real world and then we realize our interest and potential. now begins the struggle for success.

   days passes by in a blink and we have to decide about what you going to do further. every one asks, 'what you going to be', 'why dont you study this.. and that' . its like we get stuck around the question bank . however we have our own aim to become. My aim is common but ther is a lot things beside my aim. i cant only think about my aim ignoring all those factors due to which iam here.

  So with the deep respect to all these , i decide to go on with the present necessity. aim means nothing infront of demand because achieving the aim is just for own but aking every one smile with my effort is for all the people. no matter how much selfish you are but i have realized that the selfishness is very worthless against parent's smile and their happiness. thats why i believe try until u can n let the destiny decide what you are going to achieve.

   i am just writing this... don't know why but this is what destiny require me to do now.

friendship

 A life alone is worthless. so one needs the comany during the journey of life . friends add spice to the life. actually i personally feel that friends are the part of life who are necessary every time. Apart fro parents, our world comprises of various peer groups whom we meet at different occasions. they may be together when you start going to school or college, nearby home or else where you are alone.

 Nobody can claim himself isolated from friendship, its really impossible. they are the one to whom we can share all our feelings that we cant even do with our parents. we really have a whale of time when we are with them because our thoughts coincide , the way our mind works are in the similar pattern. They inspire us when are feeling low, encourage to do good things , its friends whose conselling matters more than our parents sometimes.

my personal view to friendship- its a strong bond between the people to whom we can realize that i am comfortable enoughto talk with him or her. but this does not apply to all. it depends how you are choosing your friens. our friendship should be limited to a bound where u should learn to hide some secrets, your point of weakness so that nobody can betray us.no body can guarantee us about the good aspects of friendship only. thats why its better to be ccautious about these matters.

its said rightly "when you laugh, everyone laughs with you but when you cry you cry alone" . therefore  i would suggest learn to hide your tears because this may be the strength of your enemy..

love

 LOVE, a word with which the world is existing. Its a bond of relationship. it is defined in many ways by the people . for me love is the greatest power in life which can lead a person to any way. Its a mystery because how can one give their own view after all people have their own outlook toward it.

    A mom's love for her child, a husband's love for his wife, a boy friends love for his girlfriends.... there are different state of love. that pure love of mom cant be compared to any one of them because there is no any selfishness on it. her care to be anxious about what her child would do in future is truly respectful. Its just a natural love taht is platonic. like wise a love of  husbaand for his wife is a responsibily to keep her happy throuhout her life , letting her realize herself as connected ti him. finally, the growing trend of a love between boy and girl. It cant be described because every one has personal view over it.

        So love is all about sharing and caring, expecting support when needed and keep smiling always.

frustrations

  In spite of all the inspiring words of just moving on after overcoming the hurdles, heart sometimes does not accept to do this. at some point, we feel the weakest to think rationally about any matters. Every thing happening to me is against my wish. why cant i smile like everyone. Don't i deserve success or i am too late to achieve it.

      Many things come in mind at once striking all the parts of my brain. N among those feeling there is only one conclusion that is...no more to do with life. I know success is not achieve staying in a corner, i also know   that its not gained rushing crazily for that. All we need is a little love and little luck. The strong support of family and health is the most but even after doing all these if we cant get what we want then its obvious to be fed up from every thing.

      When bad time comes then no one is there to accompany us. When we laugh,every one is there to laugh with us , but when we cry we have to cry alone. This is why many people have the reason to get away from life.if nothing is in favor , we feel definitely death is in our support. Its just a second of thought. We can just expect good thing to happen further ,but thinking of death is possibly the idea of a foolish person.

         So, life cant be the bed of roses only. Yes,there are frustrations on the way. Just get adapted with that because this is the world where there is the survival f the fittest. if life gives us the lemons, lets make lemonades out of it . This is experience which we gain till the last time of our life.

school..the second home

 Just learning to be a person is not possible .one should have proper guidance and the medium to learn more and more.So what  can be the better alternative than school to learn more. Every parents are not free enough or not expert enough for their children to teach about every aspects. hence school is the best area where there are the group of experts.

School is the sacred area where one can learn to socialize and now about the different matters.We get to learn about various subjects and this makes us aware about different matters. It teaches us to be disciplined.
also we get opportunity to involve in the extra activities so that it increases our creativity. Also it makes us expert and prepare us to build up our career.

we get to meet various groups of friends and that is the most important part of life. We learn about co-operation and co-existence. We have the idea of  group work  which is the useful part to move on.
So school can be considered as the second home to all

parents.. the first teachers

 The first sense when we born up..what i can remember is my mom. Her damp hands on me and my dad warm hug is what i cant express with the words because emotions speak more than these words.Parents are like a living god.They are the one who are always determined to make their children be better.forgetting all their troubles and pain they work only for us. so, they are the whole world to me. actually not me only to all

  The pages of life are turning with time and m  slowly understanding the value of my parents. their contribution for me .They taught me to speak the whole sentences starting with those pretty ways of pronouncing,walking a mile with a single step to be socialized. these can no more be done by parents.Caring for our small happiness and desires they are those who sacrifice their food to buy s a toy, their clothes to buy us fancy dresses.So i adore you the most. you are the base of my life

Parents are the roots of child. So wherever he/she reach to the top,that success is meaningless.So respect your parents to get respected from your life .

my way to success

    The word success always strikes on my mind...how to achieve , how much it worths !!! its like every one is rushing towards getting  it . among millions of people, i, too think i'm one of the competitor of the race. N my life is dedicated to reach to my destination.
 
actually I believe that success is just a journey not a destination. Its goes on till your last breath.none can claim he is successful because he is moving towards success but yet is not successful.N this is what life is for... just surviving to join hand to mouth is what all living beings do. therefore being an intellectual human, one must be aware of his unique identity how one can recognize you in this world.

  Since stepping to this new beautiful world,my journey begins...learning to behave like a human ,to live like a social being every morning and days passed out .so,each day is a new beginning .i begin to learn something worthy  with the rising sun and setting sun makes me aware of the next day with new enthusiasm.this is how i'am spending these parts of my life.

    Something mysterious, life has given lots of emotional feelings that may be a smile, tears,love,hatred . By the way i feels its not life that gives the result of our deeds,its us who get what we deserve.So life cant be bed of roses that we go on smiling always.there are lots of hurdles in our life that we have to face and act against it and we should always be prepared for that.Knowing a these facts I'm trying to move against those troubles in the path of my success.

We should do what our heart thinks of. So, I believe the main way to success can be work for the satisfaction.we should move on until our heart says - Ok , m happy with your deeds.But this damn heart never accepts to stop in the way.It always orders us to go further and further unless your heart stops responding to you.  SO I WOULD SAY JUST BANG ON...MOVE ON UNTIL U CAN N U WOULD GET THAT U DESERVE.