Failure

failure is not everything that one has to worry about. Sometimes it is the key to achieve success.

SO stop regreting about your mistakes because there are lots of similar  hurdles you have to face and that mistake will help you rectify second time. This is the way of life.


SUCCESS IS A HABIT , FAILURE IS A HABIT TOO..
ONCE YOU GET OUT OF YOUR FAILURE YOU WILL BE HABITUATED TO SUCCESS
  BELIEVE ME

loneliness..

this word just loves me where ever  i  go. we have become the best friends ever. i  always think my world to be full of joy and happiness with lots of people around me , chatting with them living in a group but why will life give me what i want?? nohh why am i blaming others for my deeds. i am the reason for all that happens . we are oneself responsible for for everything.
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 every time out of my home, a new world is introduced to me, a gang of people with different thoughts, ideas and many more . n i feel mi am the stranger to myself. i cant recognize me within them. it feels harder to talk to them, be with them , share my feelings. my efforts just go in vain every time i rise up my voice to communicate with the people.

  why cant i introduce myself and make me friendly with the strangers. n after i make some companions , i don't find myself fit with them. this is how i am stuck in this world. i find no one perfect to share my words. their way of life and thought never meet to mine. my choice alters with others. so i prefer me alone to accompany me .

 thus loneliness is becoming my partner throughout my whole journey. i would say this is how i live and know about myself.who cares how the world compete with me..  have a constant speed within me that would definitely takes me to that level.

REGRETS

  we continuosly walk in our path with our interests ignoring what will be next or am i right.. everything seems to be careless in front of us. and after we know about the consequences we get to know that oh no! why have i done this . actually this case is applied for almost all the people.

   we do what we like. but when we become aware of our mistakes, its too late. we can do nothing for that. we don't respond for good things butbad things and its adverse result is always affecting our brain in any way. yes, being a human we commit many wrong deeds , sometimes we realize it or dont. some mistakes can be corected but some remains as the black part of our life. we can do nothing more than regreting.

   but those regrets just kill ourselves. we can be sorry for those acts but the attitude towards ourselves remain the same forever. nwe can just shout at us, cry like a baby or deeply hurt but hat is not going to change anything.if we regret for our deds then we are free of all. lets start with a new beginning forgetting all those deeds. but we just need some time to console ourselves. we should be courageous to face the says of others.

    let the dogs bark... we should move on with rectification to not repeat those silly mistakes again.its us to decide for our future now . none can be perfect without imperfection . so let us be trying and trying until we reach to perfection.

aim and destiny

  after we start knowing about the real world, we start thinking about what to do in the future. it sometimes becomes the matter of entertainment during childhood. dad says- my childs going to a doctor. next, mom says - no, he will become an engineer. and our mind hovers around in the dream of our parents. with the time, we get to experience a real world and then we realize our interest and potential. now begins the struggle for success.

   days passes by in a blink and we have to decide about what you going to do further. every one asks, 'what you going to be', 'why dont you study this.. and that' . its like we get stuck around the question bank . however we have our own aim to become. My aim is common but ther is a lot things beside my aim. i cant only think about my aim ignoring all those factors due to which iam here.

  So with the deep respect to all these , i decide to go on with the present necessity. aim means nothing infront of demand because achieving the aim is just for own but aking every one smile with my effort is for all the people. no matter how much selfish you are but i have realized that the selfishness is very worthless against parent's smile and their happiness. thats why i believe try until u can n let the destiny decide what you are going to achieve.

   i am just writing this... don't know why but this is what destiny require me to do now.

friendship

 A life alone is worthless. so one needs the comany during the journey of life . friends add spice to the life. actually i personally feel that friends are the part of life who are necessary every time. Apart fro parents, our world comprises of various peer groups whom we meet at different occasions. they may be together when you start going to school or college, nearby home or else where you are alone.

 Nobody can claim himself isolated from friendship, its really impossible. they are the one to whom we can share all our feelings that we cant even do with our parents. we really have a whale of time when we are with them because our thoughts coincide , the way our mind works are in the similar pattern. They inspire us when are feeling low, encourage to do good things , its friends whose conselling matters more than our parents sometimes.

my personal view to friendship- its a strong bond between the people to whom we can realize that i am comfortable enoughto talk with him or her. but this does not apply to all. it depends how you are choosing your friens. our friendship should be limited to a bound where u should learn to hide some secrets, your point of weakness so that nobody can betray us.no body can guarantee us about the good aspects of friendship only. thats why its better to be ccautious about these matters.

its said rightly "when you laugh, everyone laughs with you but when you cry you cry alone" . therefore  i would suggest learn to hide your tears because this may be the strength of your enemy..